The Dangerous Comfort of Being the Most Experienced Person in the Room

 After nearly three decades of working, I have acquired a useful professional skill. I can occasionally reach a conclusion before the younger people in the room have finished explaining the problem. Unfortunately, I have acquired another skill too. I can be wrong considerably faster.

I guess the challenge is figuring out when experience stops being an advantage and starts becoming baggage. And, preferably, figuring it out a little before it actually happens! There have been many occasions when experience has served me well. Looking at a project plan and knowing it was unrealistic. Suggesting building a premium into a proposal which the team was against. Recommending that we kill a product a year before we eventually did. Or, conversely, fighting to continue with one that everyone else had declared a goner. On all those occasions, my judgement turned out to be right.

Experience does that. It teaches you to recognise patterns, understand market dynamics, anticipate customer behaviour and occasionally see around corners. This is experience at work. Alas, experience takes you only that far.

One would like to believe that by the time one reaches a leadership position, the success rate should be close to 100%. I have some bad news. I think 7 out of 10 is pretty good! The trick, perhaps, is recognising the other three quickly enough before they become expensive monuments to one’s conviction. And it is precisely in those three—or perhaps just one for the exceptionally gifted! —that the bane of experience can set in.

Recently, I was in a meeting with my team discussing the time required to develop and industrialise a platform. Having built complex systems over the years, I had a fairly clear view of how long this ought to take. Yes, AI would make development faster, I thought, but surely the overall process would still take X months. A colleague proceeded to show me that development could potentially be 10x faster and the overall cycle perhaps half of what I had assumed. My experience wasn’t necessarily wrong. It was simply trained on the wrong era. The AI paradigm wasn’t coded into my experience. I was applying perfectly sensible pattern recognition to a pattern that had changed.

And therein lies the danger. Experience gives us pattern recognition. But eventually we risk seeing patterns where they don’t exist—or failing to notice when the pattern itself has changed.

The question then becomes. Am I recognising this problem? Or merely recognising something that looks like it? There is another curious privilege that seems to disappear as the hair turns grey: permission to ask stupid questions.

At 25, saying “I don’t understand” demonstrates curiosity. In one’s 50s, one occasionally worries that it demonstrates that the recruitment process made a terrible mistake a few decades ago.

I believe precisely the opposite. One privilege of genuine seniority should be the confidence to ask the embarrassingly basic question that everybody else in the room is avoiding. And let me tell you, I have been exercising that privilege quite liberally!

Just the other day, I was in a conversation with a prospective customer about processes that would form part of a transformational journey. I am relatively new to this industry, and perhaps that helped. As the discussion progressed, it seemed to me that we were complicating the proposed process while simultaneously diluting some of the very benefits the transformation was supposed to deliver. 

So, I asked the embarrassingly basic question, what exactly we were trying to achieve. Thankfully, the (in)experienced person’s plea was heard!

Perhaps that’s the paradox. Experience helps me question things because I’ve seen enough and inexperience helps me question things because I haven’t seen enough.

Maybe we need a little of both. As far as I am concerned, the real advantage of experience isn’t knowing more answers. It is having been wrong often enough to become suspicious of the obvious ones. And those numbers will only keep growing! Experience should shorten the journey to the question, not prematurely decide the answer.

In my earlier post, The Joy — and Humiliation — of Being a Beginner Again, I wrote about the unexpected pleasure of becoming a novice underwater.

Perhaps the challenge is to bring a little of that beginner’s mind-set back with us when we surface—and, more importantly, when we walk into the boardroom.

After nearly three decades, experience is something I value enormously. I just don’t want to be it’s prisoner…

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Srinivas Nidugondi

was wondering how to describe myself and the first thing that came to mind is that I am caught up in a time warp and while the body has moved forward the heart says that the needle is stuck in the 30s! When I look back over the years I have only gratitude at where I am and what I have got in life. Of course. Once in a while I do yearn for more but most of the time I do see the positive side of life. On the professional front, with over 25 years under the belt, I never imagined that I would be deeply intertwined with the evolution of tech and digital and be part of many transformative initiatives across the Globe. Clearly a journey that began by default now reflects a tapestry that has been beautifully woven. Having been involved in launching and scaling financial products and services that have touched the lives of over a billion people it does give me immense satisfaction. What with these initiatives touching 13 of the 17 UN SDGs I do hope we will, one day, see us move from financial inclusion to wealth inclusion. Further, being part of the evolution of digital banking in India I helped launch the first mobile banking app, first digital only banking product, helping build a financial inclusion IT network and conceptualising and launching IMPS - IMPS and UPI have transformed the payments landscape in India. Starting off in the Smart Card industry, I worked on product concepts and help take them to scale and these include some of the largest ID card projects in the World. Of course, in this journey, there have been enough failures and these learnings have taught me much more. What keeps me going is change and the fascination for the new and so I thrive in anything transformational – be it business, product, process or people. I believe in tech for real development and as an angel investor look for sustainable growth ventures which, hopefully, will drive India’s growth story forward. As an avid reader I have a deep interest in philosophy, politics, public policy, international relations, history and spy thrillers. I am fascinated with limericks and penning them down is a great stress buster. Finally, the love for travel and food is something that gets me going. I do hope I will be able to write on some if not all of the above topics.

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